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Olayinka "Mary" Akeju

Therapist

Olayinka "Mary" Akeju

LPC

New Jersey · 17+ years of experience

Compassionate counselor guiding practical change

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Step 1

  • Trauma informed
  • Values focused
  • Skills oriented

About Olayinka

Olayinka "Mary" Akeju is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) based in New Jersey with 17 years of experience. She uses practical, collaborative methods to help people manage stress, anxiety, depression, and relationship struggles. Mary aims to create an approachable space where clients can talk through painful experiences and decide what matters most to them.

Her work often centers on trauma, emotional regulation, and the long-run effects of life changes. She also supports people dealing with parenting and family concerns, grief, anger, addiction, and issues around identity and intimacy. Mary includes attention to neurodiversity topics such as autism and ADHD when relevant.

Mary draws on several therapy styles to meet different needs. She uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help clients clarify values and take small steps toward them. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is used to spot and change unhelpful thinking and behavior patterns. Attachment-based ideas guide work on relationship patterns and how past bonds affect present feelings.

Sessions focus on practical skills and honest conversation. Mary partners with clients to set clear goals and try strategies between meetings. She frames therapy as a process of learning new ways to cope rather than a one-time fix.

People from different backgrounds and life stages seek her help with complex issues like grief, caregiver stress, mood disorders, and coping after trauma. She works in English and accepts international clients; confirm current session options before booking.

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Family conflictsTrauma and abuseParenting issuesAnger managementDepression

Also works with

Stress, AnxietyAddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCoachingCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressCo-morbidityCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameHIV / AIDSHoardingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMoney and financial issuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismPanic disorder and panic attacksPersonality disordersPhobiasPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSocial anxiety and phobiaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyEye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)Mindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family SystemsSystemic Therapy

Experience

17+ years

Credentials

New Jersey

Languages

English

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How therapeutic approaches shape online work

Mary uses Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to help people clarify values and take small actions that match those values. ACT can be useful for anxiety, stress, and helping people move forward when they feel stuck. She also uses Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to identify unhelpful thoughts and test new behaviors; CBT is often applied for depression, anxiety, and sleep or eating concerns. Attachment-Based Therapy appears in her approach for clients who want to understand how early bonds affect current relationships and emotional reactions.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Mary treats this as a collaboration where the client’s goals, life context, and preferences guide which methods are tried. She helps people experiment with strategies and adjusts plans based on what is useful for them.

The original biography does not list specific online session formats, so confirm available options before booking. In general, online therapy can make scheduling easier and cut travel time. It can also let people fit short check-ins into a busy day, use phone-only sessions when video is difficult, or try longer sessions when life allows. Licensed professionals can adapt ACT, CBT, and attachment-based exercises to remote sessions so clients can build skills and track progress between meetings.

Step 4

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does she address?

She helps people with stress, anxiety, depression, relationship and parenting issues, trauma and emotional regulation. Other focuses include grief, addictions, ADHD, eating and sleeping challenges, and caregiver stress.

What is her therapeutic style?

She blends approaches like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, DBT, attachment work, and client-centered methods. Sessions emphasize practical tools and collaborative goal setting.

How much clinical experience does she have?

She has 17 years of experience working with a range of mental health and relational concerns. That experience informs a practical, steady approach to change.

Where does she practice and what is her credential?

She practices in New Jersey and holds the LPC credential, which stands for Licensed Professional Counselor.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English, and she also accepts international clients for remote work.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Confirm current session options before booking to know which formats are offered.

How does payment and cost work?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability; sessions use a subscription model that can be canceled at any time. Check the platform or intake information for exact pricing.

How do I begin working with her?

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