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Hayley Blacker

Therapist

Hayley Blacker

BACP

United Kingdom · 3+ years of experience

Practical, compassionate counselling for everyday struggles

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Step 1

  • Open listening
  • Practical steps
  • English sessions

About Hayley

Hayley Blacker is a counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with three years of professional experience and BACP accreditation. She focuses on creating an open space where people can say what they feel and think without fear of judgement. Hayley aims to make the first steps into therapy feel manageable and respectful of each person's pace.

Hayley supports people facing stress and anxiety, including work or life pressure. She also helps with depression, grief and recovery after trauma or abuse. Relationship and intimacy-related concerns are part of her work, along with issues around self-esteem and communication.

Her wider focus includes addiction, ADHD and challenges linked to body image, sleeping and eating. She has experience addressing caregiving strain, chronic illness and the emotional sides of adoption and foster care. Hayley is also familiar with attachment issues, autism and aspects of sexual expression such as kink and BDSM when these come up in sessions.

In sessions she builds a calm atmosphere and listens closely to what matters to each person. Conversations aim to clarify feelings, spot repeating patterns and find small steps that make daily life easier. The approach is practical and rooted in what the client wants to change.

Hayley offers counselling in English and accepts international clients. She works with people across many areas including career stress, compassion fatigue, bipolar mood concerns and coping with major life changes. To begin, a short questionnaire helps match people to her practice and schedule the first meeting.

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsTrauma and abuseDepression

Also works with

AddictionsLGBTGriefIntimacy-related issuesEating disordersSleeping disordersParenting issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesBipolar disorderCoping with life changesCompassion fatigueADHD

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAdoption and foster careAntisocial personalityAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDependent personalityDisruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD)DissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesEmptinessFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesForgivenessGender dysphoriaGuilt and shameHoardingHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesImpulsivityInfidelityIntellectual disabilityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMen's issuesMidlife crisisVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesMood disordersMulticultural concernsNarcissismObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksParanoiaPersonality disordersPhobiasPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPostpartum depressionPost-traumatic stressPregnancy and childbirthPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Seasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSex addictionSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaSomatizationTrichotillomaniaWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyEmotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Psychodynamic TherapySomatic TherapyTrauma-Focused Therapy

Experience

3+ years

Credentials

United Kingdom

Languages

English

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How these approaches can work online

Attachment-Based Therapy focuses on how early connections shape current relationships. It helps people understand patterns in attachments and improve how they relate to others. Client-Centred Therapy places the person at the heart of the work, with the counsellor offering acceptance and reflection to help people find their own answers. Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT) helps people name and work through strong feelings to change difficult interaction patterns and increase emotional closeness.

Deciding which approach suits a person is part of the process. The therapist will work collaboratively to identify goals, try different ways of working and adjust the approach as needed. This means sessions can shift to focus more on emotion, past patterns or present-day coping depending on what helps most.

The biography does not list specific session formats, so please confirm current options before booking. Online therapy can still make it easier to fit sessions into a busy life, for example by reducing travel time, making shorter check-ins possible, or allowing quieter, more focused conversations when that helps. Many people find it simpler to keep therapy consistent when it can fit around work and other commitments.

Step 4

Frequently asked questions

What concerns does Hayley help with?

Hayley supports people with stress, anxiety, depression, trauma and grief, plus relationship and intimacy issues. She also works with concerns such as addiction, ADHD, eating and sleeping problems.

How does she approach therapy?

Her style is warm and non-judgemental, with close listening and practical steps. Sessions focus on spotting patterns and finding small changes that help day-to-day life.

What is her background and experience?

She has three years of professional experience working in the United Kingdom. Her work has included clients coping with trauma, grief, depression and relationship difficulties.

What credentials and location are listed?

She is accredited with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy, shown as BACP, and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are available for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English. International clients are accepted.

What session formats are offered?

The original biography does not specify session formats. Please confirm current session options with the service before booking.

How does payment and cost work?

Costs vary with location and therapist arrangements; sessions use a subscription that can be cancelled at any time. Exact pricing will be provided when arranging sessions.

How do I start working with Hayley?

Begin by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and then scheduling according to the therapist's availability.

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