Need help now? See crisis phone numbers

Therapist listings are provided by BetterHelp. We will earn a commission at no additional cost to you if you use our links to purchase.

Sylwia Wielgosz

Therapist

Sylwia Wielgosz

LMHC

New York · 14+ years of experience

Practical therapist for relationships and recovery

Continue with Sylwia

Opens BetterHelp in a new tab. There you can look at online therapy options.

Step 1

  • Skills-focused
  • Nonjudgmental
  • Subculture aware

About Sylwia

Sylwia Wielgosz is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) based in New York with 14 years of experience. Sylwia uses straightforward, practical work to help people manage relationship and intimacy concerns, addictions, ADHD, and challenges related to sexual and gender diversity. Sessions aim to build useful skills and clearer understanding rather than rely on jargon. Sylwia has a background supporting people recovering from complex trauma and from social forces like socioeconomic and spiritual oppression. Their experience includes working with people who identify with BDSM, kink, polyamory, and other subcultures. This informs a nonjudgmental approach and attention to how culture shapes identity and relationships. Therapy with Sylwia focuses on goal-driven plans. Clients get psychoeducation, concrete skill practice, and accountability for tasks they and the therapist set together. Expect a mix of talking, behavioral experiments, and practice homework aimed at improving daily functioning and relationships. The work centers on building self-soothing, better communication, and stronger boundaries. Sylwia emphasizes helping people find practical ways to manage emotions and to make changes that last. Progress is measured by whether a client can use their own individualized blueprint for living. Appointments are currently offered as text-only sessions through an online service. People interested in working together are encouraged to confirm current session options before booking so they match their needs.

Step 2

Areas of expertise

Primary focus

AddictionsLGBTRelationship issuesIntimacy-related issuesADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureBlended family issuesBody imageCaregiver issues and stressChronic pain, illness, and disabilityCo-morbidityCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesCoping with natural or human-caused disasterDissociationDivorce and separationDomestic violenceDrug and alcohol addictionEating and food-related issuesFamily of origin issuesFamily problemsFatherhood issuesFertility issuesFirst responder issuesGender dysphoriaHIV / AIDSHospice and end-of-life counselingImmigration issuesIntellectual disabilityJealousyMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsObsessions, compulsions, and OCDPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSexual assault and abuseSexual dysfunctionSexualitySocial anxiety and phobiaTraumatic brain injuryTrichotillomaniaYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)Attachment-Based TherapyClient-Centered TherapyCognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT)Existential TherapyGottman MethodJungian TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingNarrative TherapyPsychodynamic TherapySolution-Focused TherapyTrauma-Focused TherapyInternal Family Systems

Experience

14+ years

Credentials

New York

Languages

English

Step 3

How Sylwia's approaches translate to online care

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) helps people notice unhelpful thoughts and still choose actions that match their values. It is useful for motivation, anxiety, and making life changes. Attachment-Based Therapy looks at how early connection patterns shape current relationships and helps people change interaction habits to feel more secure and connected. Client-Centered Therapy emphasizes the person's own goals and pace, with the therapist offering reflection and support rather than directing the process.

Finding the right approach is part of the work. Sylwia will collaborate with each person to pick methods that fit their goals, preferences, and daily life. That means adjusting focus over time, combining techniques, and checking what is helping as therapy progresses.

At the moment, sessions are offered as text-only appointments through an online service, so confirm current session options before booking. Online work can make therapy easier to fit into a busy day, allow shorter check-ins when needed, and reduce time spent traveling to appointments. Licensed professionals can use these formats to support skill practice, provide psychoeducation, and coach through relationship or recovery challenges without requiring an in-person visit.

Step 4

Frequently asked questions

What kinds of concerns does Sylwia address?

Sylwia helps people with addictions, relationship and intimacy issues, ADHD, and LGBT-related concerns. Additional focuses include attachment issues, chronic illness and disability, body image, and cultural or subcultural matters such as BDSM and polyamory.

How would you describe Sylwia's therapeutic style?

Their style is practical and collaborative, offering psychoeducation, skill practice, and task-based plans. Sessions aim to improve day-to-day functioning and relationship skills through concrete steps.

What is Sylwia's professional background?

They have 14 years of clinical experience supporting people recovering from complex trauma and social oppression. The work often integrates understanding of subcultural identities and community-specific needs.

Where is Sylwia licensed and practicing?

Sylwia holds a New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor credential, listed as LMHC, and practices from New York.

Which languages are supported for sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with Sylwia?

International clients are not currently accepted.

How are sessions priced?

Cost varies with location and therapist availability, and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time.

How does someone begin therapy with Sylwia?

Start by selecting the Start Therapy button, completing a short matching questionnaire, and scheduling according to therapist availability.

Step 5

Your next step

If this is for you

  • Check that the location and license details fit where you live.
  • Write down one or two things you want to talk about.
  • Take your time. You can read other profiles first.

If you are helping someone

  • Read this page together, at a pace that suits them.
  • Ask what they think about this therapist.
  • Let the person make the choice.
Sylwia WielgoszContinue with Sylwia